"Relentless & Coordinated Attacks "

I live next to a bar and I used to go there all of the time. One of the bartenders developed a crush on me and would give me free drinks all the time. Just by looking at me you can’t tell but I’m medically disabled. I have a chronic illness that requires surgery every 2 to 3 months and I have a permanent tube about 10 inches long coming out of & implanted in my stomach for tube feeding and as a way to administer medication. I haven’t dated in over 5 years because I’m self conscious about my tube and surgical scars. So, when I didn’t return the bartenders advances she got angry. She lied to the manager and said I wasn’t paying my tabs even though I had receipts so I was banned from the bar. Then I found out she was telling staff and patrons I was an IV heroin user since she had seen bruising on my arm (it was from me getting my blood drawn). Four months passed since I’d even spoken to her and I was finally going on my first date in years. I had to go in my apartment to get my purse and while the man was waiting for me to return, the bar tender left her place of business while on shift to try to more or less scare him off. She’s also gone to people that work at other bars in our area and spread lies to them as well. I’m exhausted.